WHAT TRAUMA CAN LOOK LIKEÂ

Some children growing up in our inner cities do not experience trauma from one life changing event. Instead, they carry the weight of hundreds of painful moments that never seem to end. Waking up to arguing at home. Wondering if the lights will stay on. Going to school hungry. Walking past violence. Hearing gunshots. Losing friends or family. Being bullied. Feeling pressure to join a group just to belong. Watching classmates disappear from school. Struggling to read but being too embarrassed to ask for help. Carrying adult responsibilities while still being a child. Living with anxiety for so long that it begins to feel normal. Constant stress changes the way a child's brain develops. It becomes harder to concentrate, trust other people, regulate emotions, solve problems, and succeed in school. When trauma goes untreated, it can lead to depression, anxiety, substance abuse, anger, isolation, chronic absenteeism, poor academic performance, dropping out of school, involvement with the juvenile justice system, becoming victims of violence, or even becoming the ones who commit it. Many children are not choosing bad decisions. They are reacting to pain they have never been taught how to process. The tragedy is that many of these children never receive the help they need. Mental health resources in Columbus City Schools are stretched thin. Many schools have one counselor, or only a handful of mental health professionals, serving hundreds of students. Some children wait weeks or months before they can even speak to someone. Others never ask for help at all. Trauma does not disappear because it is ignored. It simply shows up in different ways. It shows up in the classroom. It shows up in relationships. It shows up in violence. It shows up in our neighborhoods. If we want different outcomes, we have to understand what some of our children are carrying before they ever step into a classroom. Awareness is not an excuse. It is the first step toward building stronger families, better schools, safer neighborhoods, and more opportunities. Every child deserves the chance to grow up without survival becoming their full time job. THE VILLAGE EXISTS BECAUSE NO CHILD SHOULD HAVE TO FACE THAT ALONE.


